Relationships are like Violin

Music may stop now and then but strings are always attached to it forever.

Relationship is a bond of love, attachment, affection, trust and faith. Different names are used to describe different relationships but it is all about the love and mutual respect for each other. True love is everything that describes a relationship. This love is the only bond that holds and strengthens a relationship. It only helps the relationship grow deeper.

Long Distance Relationships – How to Manage

This is one of the frequently asked questions that do long distance relationships work or not? Well to be honest it absolutely depends on you and your ways of problem solving. Relationships are hard to maintain be it long distance or short for some. For such people none of these would work as they tend to have a negative mindset. So if you want your long distance relationship to work, then stop being pessimistic. A positive attitude can change everything in life. If you plan to get into one such relation then have faith in yourself first, then go ahead with it.

Experience the Change in Your Relations While Following Some Simple Rules

That is very true if you really want to make any relationship work then you need to certain norms. This endeavor is a candid discussion from my end for those who really want to make any relationship better by following some rules. Of course you cannot organize anything in this world without a set of laws! In the same way relationships also need to be unknotted and managed to run smoothly.

Teen Dating – What to do and How?

A guide to teen dating is not that hard to find these days. In fact guidance was found in the past as well. Today the information can be found quite effortlessly floating in the net. In the past and even now you a teenager can go to a school counselor for some extra support. Of course there is adult supervision that you was and is always there for teens to take help from. One can confide in their parents or some grown up whom they can rely for their experience.

A few places you can choose to go for your first date

Many people have this question on their mind that where should they go for their first meeting with someone special. This article focuses on a few places you can choose to go for your first date. Before we start with the discussion one thing needs to be clarified is that you should select a place that both of you are comfortable with, for the dating. This is a mistake that most people make as they want to impress the other and invariably end up choosing the wrong venue.

Anger Management in Relationships – How to Handle it

How to handle anger while in a relationship? This is a commonly asked question by many of us. As we all are human beings, we tend to be emotional. We laugh when we are happy, cry when we are unhappy, and one of such emotion is anger. It is a much unwanted feeling that we should be avoided to live peacefully on this earth. Likewise while we are in a relationship we want to be loved and attended to by our cohorts. For this we should bear one fact in mind that our partners also feel the same. Hence it is advisable for everyone that we should learn how to control our bouts of anger that will produce a healthy relationship.

How can you distinguish infatuation from love?

Yes how can you distinguish infatuation from love? This is very commonly asked question that bothers teenagers and adults alike. The fact that both infatuation and love are abstract ideas of the human mind makes it even complicated. In simple words it can be explained like this that these two are abstract feelings which cannot be evaluated. Emotions vary from person to person like thought processes. That is why it cannot be calculated on the basis of two and two make four. You need to be observant and have patience in order to find that difference between infatuation and love.

You must have noticed it that infatuation deals with superficial likings of a person. It could be that you like a guy or a girl because of his/ her looks and nothing more than that. Hence this gives birth to insecurity, possessiveness and trying to cling to your partner like an octopus. In the long run you are portrayed as someone you are not. This is because people think you are apprehensive and sick. Ultimately you will be told that you need some kind of help for acting like a maniac!

Love on the other hand is completely different from all this. It is a special feeling that makes you caring. You always tend to be thinking about the well being of your beloved. Love teaches you to let them go and never suffocate them. In other words you do not have to pretend to be someone else when you are truly in love. Remember one thing that I have understood over the years, that physicality is a part of love. Love is just like a huge ocean of intangible thoughts and getting intimate with someone is all about loving a person which can never be a necessity.

To some extent infatuation is driven by sexual urges but love can never be dependent on it to keep a relation alive. It is similar to your free will that rests in you and only you. You have the liberty to like or love a person. Unlike infatuation which is at times the resultant of peer pressure. In fact the process by which you can distinguish infatuation from love is called maturity.

Developing trust in a relationship

Developing trust in a relationship could be very tricky. This is because there are no rules that can actually help you build that trust between you and your loved ones. This could be about anyone like it could be the trust between parents and children, husband and wife or even between siblings.

Trust is an important aspect about any relationship and it is really difficult or jot down ways of building it. However with minute observations we have been able to gather a few tips that can help anyone willing to win someone’s trust. Ideally it should start with keeping words. That is correct you should be able to live up to the set of expectations that you have set. This could be as simple as a child doing his or her homework regularly. All our parents want from us is that we remain focused in our lives. When a child concentrates in his or her education, parents begin to trust the child thinking he or she can do well in life as they know what is expected out of them at that tender age.

In this relation it has to be mentioned that you need to communicate with your partner in a relationship. Communication could be through words or body language, but make sure that it is always positive. This is an important part of a relationship as it can save or ruin a relation. You need to be assured that you really love the person and that is why winning their trust is quite significant for you.

Another factor is to forget your past experiences and move on in life. This can be best explained in the light of an example that revolves around two lovers. Now since your ex has hurt you, you will be suspicious of the behavior of another person and that my friend is not fair at all. In other words you need to give up all your insecurities and restart with a fresh mind. Remember your positivity can weave an air of optimism that can help you develop a healthy relation in future.

What after the fight with your life partner - Make up tips

That is right you heard us, here are a few tips to make up after a fight with your partner. These can prove to be useful for any age group and gender. That is correct, because in the very first place you need to analyze the reason for your big fight. This applies to all irrespective of gender, age, color or creed. Again it is good to have arguments as it strengthens the relationship. So it can be considered to be healthy as long as a couple knows how to handle it positively.

While fighting, make sure that either of you do not say or do something that takes you to a point of no return. This is because people tend to blurt out things they mean when they are angry and that is what later develops into the bone of contention when things get blown out of proportion. Remember you are arguing with that special someone you love the most. So keep it toned down to your best efforts.

Now that you have had a bitter argument, you should make up. Take time in the very first place and let your beloved grumble with ire. It could be thirty minutes or an hour, let it cool down. Then let go of the ego factor and take initiative to finish it off. Don’t stop talking, which actually happens to be a common scene after a brawl. If you are not talking then slow and steady touches can do wonders for your annoyed partner. Yes you can use sex as an object to pacify that final fury. This never fails and many couples have satisfying after a clash. Yes that’s true!

Well whether you are married or not one magical word can change the scenario right away that is compromise. Moreover if you truly love someone, then compromise just happens. So why wait show your loved one how much you care for him or her. You can shower your love on that special person and pamper them a little so that it’s over finally in a loving way.

A few magical tips that will help in getting along with stepchildren

Many people have asked this question in the past and present how can they get along with their stepchildren? In earnest endeavor we here have tried to point a few facts out that can make the things better for you in a short span of time. Here I am going to discuss a few magical tips that will help in getting along with stepchildren in no time at all. However being a responsible parent you need to be practical and understand that it may actually take years for them to accept you.

To start with the truth is that you are their parent and you need to get this simple detail in your mind. Other than thinking that they are not your kids, if you look at it this way, then it would be easier for you to blend in positively. You can start by praising them for little things. For example if a kid has good manners, then you can appreciate him saying that you were not expecting it from someone of their age.

Under any circumstance do not put up a false pretence as if they would get it then the things may really turn crucial. This is because usually children from broken families are smarter in comparison to others. Always remember this as a golden rule and one more of not parenting them initially. This has to be kept in mind and you chalk out your own action plan.

Another piece of information that you need to know is never to say anything against their biological parents. This can cause a rapture which cannot be healed with time. On the contrary you can choose to admire your spouse’s ex irrespective of what they have told the children about you. This will create an air of positive vibes among the kids at least!

Finally, it’s a hard and fast rule that if you will spread love then the environment around you will always be full of esteemed happiness.

The greatness of the most important man to be celebrated as Father’s Day

Yes this is very true that the greatness of the most important man is to be celebrated as Father’s Day. This man is the one who created us and has been around us whenever we needed him. He is our father and his contribution in bringing us up is no less. He is the one who plays the role of a strict disciplinarian to help us understand the importance of self discipline. In most of the cases this style of nurturing kids gets overshadowed by the presence of a soft hearted mother. However once we grow up and step into his shoes, to be precise around the time we become parents, we understand the art parenting is not that easy.

According to the legend, it was some 4000 years ago that a boy from Babylonia had sent a card of clay to his father thanking him for support. It was in the last century that under social and political pressure the United States declared that the third Sunday of June would be regarded as Father’s Day. Besides all this, today even countries like India have joined in the brigade of thanking fathers on one single day.

So come let us celebrate this 19th of June 2011 as a special day dedicated to this man. For the lucky ones who still have their “old man” along with them, make them feel that it is both the commitment and the man that we have our gratitude for. As for the few unfortunate ones, who miss their fathers on this day can definitely express the same for someone they look up to as a father figure. You got to think about this living human being also who means a lot to you. We end by wishing all fathers “A VERY HAPPY AND SPECIAL FATHER’S DAY” from our side.

Contributed by Soumi Das Chatterjee.

Please let them child

Hi everyone! Alok Saharia is back with some other burning issue – Please let them child. Hope you will like it and learn something. Thanks.

Children and childhood – the most beautiful and innocent creation of our Creator! Doing what we cannot do as an adult is childhood. Really, many of us carry very sweet and unforgettable memories of our childhood days. But only ‘many of us’ not ‘all of us’! Obviously some people do have a very harsh time in their childhood days. Since, diversity is the nature of our world, everyone don’t have the same facilities and luxury. Some don’t have the time to calculate their total worth while some try hard to earn a single penny.

In ancient time when there was neither such harsh competition to survive nor so many diverse technologies childhood and adolescent age was full of joy – no pressure, no tension at all. But have a look around yourself today. Life is full of tensions and these tensions don’t affect adults only but they have direct impact on our children… our future.

I accept that everyone should work hard for a successful life but why can’t we keep our children away from heavy work pressure and academic pressure from their early childhood days. Why can’t we give some liberty to our children so that they can enjoy the most beautiful phase of their life? First KG then nursery then pre-nursery and now the school for milk feeding children… Where are we going? You might see schools for the children who are still in the ovary. What can I say?

Researchers are continuously warning us that sometimes it may block the overall progress of a child as a complete human. Playing outside, hanging around tress and open grounds, chatting, enjoying, nonsense fighting, and running etc with other children don’t only necessary for physical growth of a child but all these activities help the child’s mind to grow rapidly and learn the socialism.

What we are doing with our children today is the main reason behind the standalone families because the children never understand the importance of society and socialism. From ancient times, human or other creatures also like to live in groups but now this hypothecation has been hurt badly and the framework of a society is continuously getting fad. Children spending lots of time with books and computers fail to adopt our customs of culture and finally get depressed alone.

I am not saying that we should leave our children absolutely on their own wishes. Parents’ guidance is very necessary but it should be in the form that you are not pressurizing your child but keeping them away from bad habits. Children’s heart is very clear and they believe only on what that is happening around so keep them away from bad environment and try to learn their phenomena. Nurture the children with love so that they can only do love and spread love. You see, it will make our community and finally the whole world a very nice place to live.

Okay for now. I will come back with some other prospective. Spread love and make others happy. Bye guys.